Thavaratnam Thangamalar's daughter, Kandaruba, was taken by the LTTE when she was 21 years old, in 2009. "The LTTE demanded that one child from every family had to join them in their fight against the armed forces and that is how my daughter joined the LTTE". She was allowed to visit her home once in 6 months. " The last time she came home was for her brother’s birthday in December 2008". Her family hasn't seen her since.